How to write good profiles for dating sites
How To Craft The Ultimate Dating Profile In 10 Simple Steps
The better you are at attracting the right people, the more the wrong ones won't be attracted to you.
When you are in love, are you your partner's biggest cheerleader?
If you can do that, you are winning!
Give them context.
You are selling your lifestyle, and you want it to seem as attractive and aspirational to people as possible.
The added bonus of specificity is it gives people who want to reach out to you a "hook" to mention in a message to you.
But more importantly, what are you passionate about?
It is more effective to focus on attracting the right people than repelling the wrong ones.
It amazes me how many people use their precious profile real estate to talk about what they don't want or about their cynicism, bitterness or pessimism.
If you love your job, say so.
And there are a lot of online profiles that list spelling mistakes and bad grammar as a pet peeve.
Also, I want to know that someone else took your photo, not you.
If you aren't able to be objective about your profile, ask someone you trust to read it for you.